miércoles, mayo 17, 2006

When I grow up.....

....I wanna be just like Dr. Tanya Byron. Wowee, whatta gal! She is a true genius and spends her days sorting out problem parents who reckon that their KIDS are the ones with the issues! PAH!Thanks to Dr. T terms such as 'rapid return' and 'sliding in' have become commonplace. Parents around the globe are having their lives revolutionised by her interventions and I am hopelessly addicted to seeing what happens. I often find myself agreeing smugly with Dr. T and her expert observations, and then yelling at kids when I'm at work. Oopsie, my bad! But what I am so riveted by is how it's actually all common sense, and often all we need is someone who is impartial, independent and unconditional, who provides us with the right conditions for us to explore our behaviour and idiosyncrasies and ultimately to grow and change. Now, I know she's not God, but she's kind of like God in that we, as human beans, respond well to boundaries and being allowed to change when someone unconditional lets us....bit of a spacky analogy but hopefully you get what I mean. Dr. T is cool, God is cool. I've developed an addiction to 'House of Tiny Tearaways' and I'm supposed to be doing an essay.

See God? I need boundaries!

Over and out.

4 comentarios:

Ulrike dijo...

Great insight. And I agree. I'm addicted to those programs too. It amazes me to think that it is actually just common sense. Keep those thoughts coming. x

Anónimo dijo...

sounds like someone could get out more....

Anónimo dijo...

i'm with you bobby o'bunny x

Anónimo dijo...

I'm so obsessed with her, she is so glam! No dowdy shoes and clothes!Bring it on! She is so amazing, my bro always watches it with pad and pen, getting tips! ha